When it comes to getting your
ex back, most books and experts will tell you that it takes 30 days or
longer to do it. They operate under the theory that time heals all
wounds, so after a month your ex may have softened towards you enough to
consider taking you back.
This does work in some cases.
Sometimes they just need some time to cool off and start missing you.
But it can also be bad relationship advice much of the time. Why?
Because after a month or more, your ex may have moved on.
So is it really possible to get your ex back in just one day? Many
times, if a relationship can be repaired, it can be repaired FAST.
If you know a little Relationship Intelligence, it can be fixed
within 24 hours when you know what to do.
Is there really a way for getting your ex back in just twenty four
hours? What do you do to make that happen?
Well, the first thing you have
to do is realize that how you go about it depends on why you broke up.
If you wronged your mate or
they wronged you, you need to use a different approach. But, in either
case, you can begin to get your ex back into your life in just one day
or so when you use some basic emotional intelligence.
Lets say you wronged your mate by cheating on them. They kicked you out
last week. They were furious and hurt. They swore they could never trust
you again. Can this really be repaired in one day?
Most of the time, yes, the damage can be repaired, and you don't have to
wait months for them to calm down. What you must do is have a particular
type of conversation with them that will take less than 15 minutes,
usually. And the amazing part about this is that you don't apologize
until near the very end of the conversation.
Most people apologize too soon! There are certain steps you need
to follow before you ever try to apologize. If you just keep
saying sorry til you're blue in the face, it will lose its impact.
So don't do that right away when working on getting your ex back.
A much better first step is
fessing up to what you did. Another very important technique before
apologizing is to get your ex to vent and tell you in as much detail as
possible how they feel about your cheating on them.
The main technique to getting your ex back in one day rather than
waiting weeks or months involves you becoming a good listener.
Most people don't understand that at all. They think they have to
do ALL THE TALKING to convince their ex to take them back.
The emotional logic is that
your ex has a heart filled with hurt and betrayal. You have to help them
to release those hurt and negative feelings. You do this by
listening to them vent. Using some basic emotional intelligence
you can actually help your ex release the bad feelings so they can move
towards forgiveness and loving you once more.
Listening to your mate and allowing them to vent in a healthy way takes
only ten minutes or so, but in that ten minutes they can completely
change from hating you to beginning to forgive you. And that begins a
process where within one day you can begin to move back into their
heart. There is a lot more to this, but the right ten minute
conversation can get your ex back within 24 hours or so.
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your ex back beginning in just 24 hours from now in simple but proven
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